Understanding and overcoming the fear of stepping away from your powerful and unconscious 'need to belong' with its conformity expectations, is possibly the maturing adult's greatest hurdle.
‘Defiance’ was an absolute joy to write! Book #2 has a feeling of quiet resistance, a kind of ‘make me… hands on hips’ attitude aligned with the title. This book has had a change of covers too trying to get your attention. It wants to help you understand where your confusion, feelings of ‘stuckness’ and powerlessness are coming from in midlife.
‘DEFIANCE’ IS FOR ADULTS ONLY!
The Midlife Crisis has been philosophised, ridiculed and maligned over the years, but… it’s never been a Crisis! We’ve simply:
•Outlived ‘The survival system’ created for the first 35 years of our lives.
•Outgrown the rules and conditioning we learnt in the first half of our lives.
MIDLIFE HAS NO RULES!...
ONLY THE RULES WE SUBCONSCIOUSLY AND UNCONSCIOUSLY DRAG FROM AN EARLIER TIME ZONE INTO PRESENT TIME.
When we don’t go back to the origins of life, we have no appreciation of the ‘whole of life’ so it’s easy to misinterpret independent behaviour as ‘delinquent’ and as a crisis, rather than a transition into adult independence, personal power and free will.
Who says we must fit in and please others like we did as children and teens?
Where did that rule come from? (Hands on hips)! ☺ LOVE THAT!
A review:
“There is no other way to describe Louise’s knowledge on this subject other than, seriously impressive. Within these pages she describes herself as the ‘whistle blower’ as she draws attention to the choices we make in establishing our independence in our adult lives and how our need to belong, dominate our behaviours. If there’s ever a book series that encourages us to take a journey, then this is it. In Defiance, your questions will be answered …”
Russ Moore, Commercial Director/Publisher.
THERE IS NOTHING LIKE ‘DEFIANCE’ TO EMPOWER THE SECOND HALF OF YOUR LIFE.
WHO WOULD BENEFIT FROM 'DEFIANCE'?
Anyone who would like to understand:
• Their confusion, feelings of ‘stuckness’ and/or powerlessness. • How childhood ‘baggage’ is impacting their adult time zone. • How the ‘need to belong’ to survive and teenage ‘need to belong’ for generational acceptance undermines adult power. • How we contribute to the power behind the status quo and how to overcome conformity issues. • The intimidation behind why we won’t stand up or speak up. • How to work with their seducers. • How to build a powerful, new, up-to-date self-image and why its key. • The role of Fear. • How to liberate groundless beliefs and behaviours. • What’s stopping you? • How to clear out their anger, resentments and regrets zones. • An understanding of character-building behaviours. • How to claim your power and rightful ownership of your life…
Welcome to your hard-earned independence, personal power and free will... no longer a midlife crisis.
